My step-mother of 2 yrs wore a two piece white dress to my wedding. Was I wrong to angry with her. 33

Avaislads · **Joined:** Thu Aug 16, 2007 4:36 pm **Posts:** 7

Yes you were correct for being upset! I would have SCREAMED at my dad and her for that!

AS a stepmom she SHOULD want to get along with you. If i were you I would go to her house and pull up all the pics of you from their wedding and shove it in her face showing her you were respectful and wore GOLD not white to her wedding.

Also SHE is older and she is the step parent which means that even if her husband's daughter was upset and wore white to her wedding she should not have been spiteful like that and wore white to yours.

Go tell her she has no class. I would tell her that she has destroyed any respect and feelings you once had for her. She OWES you an apology. She is acting like such a child!

Heriopaser · **Joined:** Fri Jul 27, 2007 8:41 pm **Posts:** 11

I completely understand, and I think you have every right to be upset. I had a guest wear a long, white, sparkly gown to my wedding- and I wasn't too happy about it either. I really hope you didn't let it ruin your day because what you'll want to take away from that day is how special it was- not what your step-mother was wearing.

Galinasajw · **Joined:** Fri Aug 17, 2007 9:12 pm **Posts:** 3

WOW you should have been upset everyone KNOWS NO OTHER WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO WEAR WHITE TO A BRIDES WEDDING! She did that to spite you also it just goes to show she doesnt like you and she has no respect for you. In no way are you wrong.

Kellian · **Joined:** Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:47 am **Posts:** 9

jDenterSeasa wrote:

I specifically asked her to wear a black dress since the colors are black and white. She was going to be singing a song and I wanted her to match the wedding party. She showed up in bright white, so my aunt sacrificed her black jacket and asked her to wear it. My stepmother then told my aunt that I needed chill pill. I totally freaked out when I heard what she was wearing. My dad later told me that she wore white to my wedding because apparently I wore a white dress to hers, which I didn't. It was gold. Please tell me I'm not wrong for getting upset.

Just to clear things up, by freaking out, I cried and vented with my bridesmaids. I never had any contact with her. Also, my dad chose her side and he wanted her to wear the white dress as well. And they both expect an apology from me.

I don't think you were wrong for getting upset. She sounds really mean. I mean she would ruin your wedding arrangement for revenge???? WOW!! What a mean lady! She needs to take a * chill pill! Your Aunt seems really nice though. If I were you I would be so mad at your step-mom! and i wouldn't even care if she said sorry. Well I would I'm not that mean. Awesome question. This is my longest answer yet. The only advice that I can give you is that you should talk to her about this. If that dosn't work then maybe talk to your father about it. If that dosn't work then don't worry about it. Think like this. If it's not going to affect you a year from now, then it's not worth getting angry about. All the best to you and your husband!

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My step-mother of 2 yrs wore a two piece white dress to my wedding. Was I wrong to angry with her. 33

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